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Happy Monday!

Who else had a crazy week last week?  I did, that's for sure!  Check out the posts that helped me make it through :-)

Cat, at Budget Blonde wrote Five Things I Learned From Getting My First Car.  My favorite: Don't Trade it in it if was free!

Making Sense of Cents posted an Ask the Reader post - What percentage is housing in your budget?  Go an check out what everyone spends on housing - you know you want to :-)

Jacob over at Cash Cow Couple posted Why Do People Invest in Stocks or Anything Else?  As usual, he boils it down!

The Simple Dollar always has about a billion posts I could include in my favorites, but I narrowed it down to one this week: Crazy.  Best takeaway - When life gets crazy, accept imperfection!

Mr. 1500 is fantastic as usual in SpongeSister SpendyPants - Anyone have a sibling like this?

Check 'em out!  You won't regret it!

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Get to know me, and you will know that there are two thing that I cannot live without:  My shows, and Amazon!  is anyone else as addicted to Amazon as I am?

At any rate, when I was a sophmore in college, Amazon offered it's Amazon Student Membership for free!  With it, you got FREE 2-day shipping, so of course I signed up!  I didn't really think anything of it after I graduated college, until The Big Guy and I became dissatisfied with the combination of Hulu Plus and Netflix we were using.  We refuse to pay for Satellite TV because of the cost, the contracts, and the availability of free TV just about everywhere!

Right on cue, Amazon send me an email with a promotion code for half of Amazon Prime because I am an Amazon Student member!  Normally this service costs $79 per year, and provides free 2-day shipping on many products, e-book lending and discounts, and a truly exciting feature, free access to many Amazon Instant Videos!  Because of my Amazon Student Membership, Amazon was offering the Amazon Prime Membership for $39 per year!

Well, my brain went into overtime, calculating the savings:
Satellite TV
Netflix & Hulu Plus
Amazon Prime 
So, by switching to Amazon Prime, we are saving:

98% over the cost of Satellite TV - or $1,401.00 annually!
80% over the cost of Hulu Plus and Netflix - or $152.76 annually!

Even if you just up and pay the $79 per year for Amazon Prime, you are still saving:

95% over the cost of Satellite TV - or $1,361.00 annually!
59% over the cost of Hulu Plus and Netflix - or $112.76 annually!

How about show availability?
To be honest, we have never been hooked on shows found on the pricier satellite TV networks.  We usually prefer the more networked shows, and we have always been open to browsing the list of free shows and getting hooked on a new one!  However, if you cannot live without your Game of Thrones or Real Housewives, this may not be for you, as there are still quite a few shows that it costs to watch, even for Prime Members.

And, what about the streaming quality?
Virtually every show and movie is available in HD, so as long as your internet connection is up to par, there should be no video quality issues.  We have had the Amazon Instant Video Server go down on us once, and it was resolved within an hour!

Overall, I love Amazon Prime!  I earn tons of Amazon gift cards through Swagbucks, so the free 2-day shipping is wonderful!  The Instant Video selection is just enough to keep us entertained when we want to be, but doesn't have enough available so keep us from more productive things!  And, you cannot beat the cost! 

Tomorrow, I will be posting on how I got a $50.00 box of diapers for FREE from Amazon because of all of the benefits of Amazon Prime!
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How much should we spend on our house?

Just last week I released our "balance sheet" and budget.  ( You can see that here.)  If you haven't sat down and looked at your finances that way, you yesterday!  One of the biggest things we had decide before we even started looking at homes was how much we could afford to spend.  While we rented, we were spending $650 per month in rent, so we knew we could comfortably afford that much per month.  We also had $5,000 for a down payment and closing costs.  I have heard that you should never spend more than 3x your annual salary on a house, so for us, that would be $75,000 x 3 = $225,000.

However, I then used's Mortgage Calculator to find out the payment - $1,042.01 per month.  That is just the principle and interest and does not include taxes, insurance, PMI, or other miscellaneous fees!

Also, on that $225K house, the down payment required (at 3.5%) would be $7,875.00 - more than our $5,000 budget for down payment AND closing costs!

So a $225,000 house was out.
"The Experts" say that your monthly debt obligations (mortgage, credit card payments, car payments, and other loan payments) should not exceed 35% of your monthly take-home pay.  Our take-home pay per month is approximately $4,500.00, giving us $1,575.00 for all debt obligations.  Minus car payments, we have about $800.00 for a house payment.

An $800.00 per month house payment will buy us a $170,000 house.  That same house would also put our 3.5% down payment at $5,950.00, which is more than budgeted.  Frankly though, we could swing it and make it happen pretty easily.


The Big Guy and I had no desire to purchase a home that was at the top of our budget unless it was absolutely necessary.  We were willing to buy a house that needed some (if not quite a bit) of TLC :-), which puts the price of the houses we decided to look at much lower than our maximum budget.

Here is what you need to consider when deciding how much to spend:

1) How much money to do we have available for a down payment and closing costs?
2) Using the 35% rule, how much house payment per month can we afford?
3) MOST IMPORTANT - how much do you feel comfortable spending?  If any of the above amounts seem too high, it is ok to go lower :-)
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Are we financially prepared to buy a home?


I think buying a home is somewhat similar to having a are never really prepared.  Generally when preparing to buy a home, you need several things:

A 20% down payment (there are exceptions to this).
Money for closing and moving costs.
A credit score that will allow you to take out a mortgage.

Down Payment
First, the 20% down payment.  Kind of daunting, right?  When purchasing a $150,000 home, the down payment would work out to $30,000.  Wow, that's a lot of dough!  Typically lenders require a 20% down payment, but there are exceptions to this such as FHA Mortgages and other specialized zero or low down payment mortgage programs.  A traditional mortgage requires the 20% down payment, but your credit score must be up to snuff (see the credit score explanation below), and the lenders are more picky about the condition of the house.

With an FHA mortgage, the route that we chose to go, the lender only requires a 3.5% down payment.  If purchasing  a $150,000 house, the down payment would only be $5,250, a difference of $24,750 from a traditional mortgage!!  There are, however, downsides to an FHA loan.  The main one that I was concerned with was Private Mortgage Insurance, or PMI.  Lenders require this on any loan with a down payment of less than 20%, and since you pay it each month, the costs can really add up over the life of a mortgage

Just for kicks, I used Good's PMI calculator to show how the cost of PMI adds up over the life of a loan!  I plugged in variables for a $150,000 home, with down payment amount of 3.5%.  The PMI worked out to:

$138.75 per month
$1,665.00 per year!
$49,950.00 over a 30 year loan!!!!!
Good Mortgage PMI Calculator
Seriously, what could you do with an extra $1,600 per year?????  That's like a vacation!

In spite of the PMI, we decided to go with an FHA mortgage because we wanted the extra cash for repairing the house, the purchase price was so stinking low, because an FHA lender is less strict about the condition of the house, and because we will have this house paid off in 7 years, cutting $38,295.00 off of the PMI cost!  Score One for the Retired by 40 family!

Closing & Moving Costs
A lot of people overlook closing costs when figuring the cost of buying a home, but the reality is that they can be quite significant.  Most of the time, closing costs run 3-5% of the purchase price of the home.  For example, in our $150,000 home purchase scenario:

3% - $4,500
4% - $6,000
5% - $7,500

To me, that is a lot of money on top of the down payment and the costs still to come!

Moving costs are also significant, but depending upon the move, can be cut down drastically.  A cross-country move can cost a couple thousand dollars up to ten thousand, but choosing how you move can put you on the lower or higher end of the spectrum.

If you are only moving down the block or within a couple hours of your current home, moving costs can be even less!  In our case, we were moving an hour away, so The Big Guy rallied all of his friends with trucks and trailers, we paid for gas and fed them lunch, and they were happy.  The entire move cost us about $400!  Plus, his friends like to hustle, so we were completely moved into the new house in 4 hours!  Can you believe that?

Then, because there were these big, ugly bushes in front of the house, his friends stuck around and pulled them out with their manly trucks!  Do we have the best friends, or what :-)

Credit Score
Well, I could write on credit scores for days, and maybe I will sometime, but for now since this post is getting a little long, I'll be quick:

To take out a traditional mortgage (20% down, no PMI), your credit score has to be 650 or greater.  They will not even consider you for a traditional mortgage if its less.  Realistically, though, scores of 680 or less applying for a traditional mortgage will get significantly higher interest rates if they are even approved.

An FHA Mortgage (3.5% down, has PMI) has less stringent standards.  The minimum score is 500, although credit scores of 500-570 have to put 10% down on the home.  Credit scores below 620 have higher interest and PMI rates, and anything above 620 qualifies for the good interest rates and easier application process.

The reality is that credit scores are a complicated thing that I'm not even going to try to explain today.  Paying your bills on time, paying credit cards off every month, and no being overextended on payments will generally lead to a higher score.  Most people should try for a traditional mortgage because of the money they will save, but in some cases, like ours, an FHA mortgage was totally the way to go!

What do you think?  Did we make the right decision going with an FHA Mortgage?  How about thoughts on the cost of buying a home?
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.....aaaaannd here goes our balance sheet.
2011 Ford Focus
2013 Chevy Cruze
1994 Toyota Truck
Savings Accounts
The house value is based on the most recent appraisal, and should go up as the market in our area improves - I hope!  I won't tell you what we bought it for until later, but let me tell you it was a steal!  Oh, and the car values are from Kelly Blue book, which I realize can be off, but it is probably the most accurate source of values that I am capable of using.  Seriously, have you tried to determine a car's value from private party listings before?  Its terrible, to say the least...

We used to have quite a bit more in savings, seeing as we were working towards buying a house, but, closing costs, down payment, and $7,000 in repairs kind of decimated our savings....some days it seems like you take one  step forward, and then two steps back.  At least we own a house now, right?

Overall, considering we are 22 and just bought a house, I feel good about our assets.  Does that make me crazy?

However, with a baby on the way in 2 months, and my maternity leave being unpaid, there is an income gap that we need to fill by having it in savings before I leave work....oh the stress :-)

Now for the hard stuff:
Credit Card 1
Credit Card 2
Auto Loan 1
Auto Loan 2
Personal Loan
Student Loans


So, we're looking at a net worth of $50,950.17.


I can't say that enough times. 

Right now, my focus is paying down the Personal Loan that we have.  Yes, I know, its at 0.00% interest, but it is a loan from a relative, and I don't want it sitting out there, coming between us.  Money coming between family is a story I have heard too many times.  Currently, we are paying $500 a month toward the personal loan balance, which means that it will be paid off in 23 months, or July 2015.  We plan to put 40% of our tax return towards it as well, which would have it paid off in 16-18 months YIPPEE!  Even though looking at it this way makes the payoff seem a long ways away, its really  not that long.

So what does our situation look like month-to-month?  Here it is, folks:




$180.00 (matched by employer)

$363.67 Left over
When I look at this, there are so many ways that I could criticize myself...I could cut The Big Guy's hair and save the $20 per month, but I am terrible at cutting hair even after many attempts, and he has to have a certain haircut because of being enlisted....but still, I should probably learn....More on this to come:-)

I could cut down on eating out, but we love to eat out so much!  Let see, what else?  Some categories like doctor and clothing are revolving accounts that we do not necessarily use every month, but I like to keep in the budget so we have them to use :-)

We are working on it....but it is frustrating.  I'm sure others are in the same position!